Meets Expectations.
Your son needs to be corrected when you see a problem area but what he needs even more is to know when he meets your expectations.
He absolutely needs affirmation when he has done something right or something good. He needs to know he is good enough. He needs this positive attention or you may find he will seek out your attention in negative ways.
Please do not take for granted all the good things he does.
Occasionally, he will exceed your expectations. What a great feeling for him and for you, this is noteworthy, special and memorable. Try writing him a note and leaving it on his bed or under his pillow so later that day he can once again experience that triumphant successful feeling.
There you go. Another lesson for today. Now, go and love your son in your own special way. Some days are long but, trust me, the years will just disappear.
Love,
MarnaKay
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