Giving Advice.
Oh, my goodness, don’t we parents like to give advice. Usually, it is cushioned with the thought that we know a little more and, of course, we think the advice would be helpful to our children.
Now, I am not saying that giving advice is all bad. Sometimes it is absolutely necessary. The problem is knowing when to give advice and when to step back.
As your son matures into his own little person, try waiting, just a little while, before you step in. Ask your son how he intends to handle a situation. You may find that your advice is not needed. This is a big sign of growth in you and your son.
This dilemma of knowing when to give advice never ends, but there does come a time when we should almost never give advice unless it is requested. In my eyes, this would be when your son is no longer living in your home and no longer dependent on your financial support.
There you go. Another lesson for today. Now, go and love your son in your own special way. Some days are long but, trust me, the years will just disappear.
Love,
MarnaKay
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